LGBTQIA+ Inclusivity Survey

St. Stephen’s Episcopal Church of Ridgefield has just published the results of its LGBTQIA+ Inclusivity Survey, which it conducted over several weeks in October to take the pulse of the church regarding its commitment to inclusivity and welcoming of this too-often marginalized community. 

            The survey reflected strong feelings that representation of the LGBTQIA+ community at St. Stephen’s is an important part of the church’s mission, vision, and core values.   The survey also showed that members believe the church could amplify its welcome and create an even more hospitable environment for LGBTQIA+ individuals, their families and loved ones. 

The Survey / The Acronym

            The survey was distributed in person at the church and online.  Twenty persons completed the survey.  Their responses were compiled into a report.  Those who completed the survey were asked to give reasons for their responses.  A significant majority agreed strongly that the LGBTQIA+ community is intentionally welcomed at St. Stephen’s Church.

            “LGBTQIA+” is an umbrella term that is often used to refer to a community of people with varying sexual orientations and gender identities.  The acronym is an abbreviation for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual. The “+” sign refers to the variety of other sexual orientations or gender identities not specifically represented in the acronym. 

What Members Said About LGBTQIA+ Inclusivity

            Many of those who took the survey expressed gratitude that the church’s literal message “All Are Welcome” includes those who identify as LGBTQIA+. They expressed a desire for St. Stephen’s to be an example of inclusivity and support for the LGBTQIA+ community, which has been historically marginalized.   Over 80 percent of the respondents agreed or strongly agreed that the church could do more to convey its welcome of LGBTQIA+ individuals, their families and loved ones. 

            Respondents expressed the need for a clear communication and actionby the church in support of the LGBTQIA+ community, especially in light of the trauma that many LGBTQIA+ individuals may have felt within religious settings.  The desire for the church to be a place of healing, repair and acceptance was emphasized as a crucial act of compassion and love.

            Unity among parishioners was a prevalent theme.  Many emphasized that everyone is considered equal within the church community, regardless of sexual orientation or identity.  Such unity creates an environment where differences are embraced.

What Happens Next

            Several respondents expressed a desire for deeper connections and conversations with LGBTQIA+ members, recognizing that understanding their experiences and ensuring their sense of belonging require greater encouragement and interaction.  A clear majority called for programs aimed at increasing awareness, overcoming stereotypes, and fostering understanding.

            A working group is now forming to respond to these findings with outreach and support activities.   The results of the survey, together with the detailed comments of those who responded, are available at the church office.